Thanks, Puppy. I was starting to feel pretty alone there for a while.
She should be back in about an hour.
I'm feeling I MUST get a conversation onthe weekend "events" so she knows why it went down like this- because of the alleged affair. Her actions, words and secrecy (as well as the bathing suit and sex supplies) don't add up to a fun birthday Saturday with the girls.
Call her out on the phone and her luggae (still in the truck)
As said before above, if she says No to the transparency,then it's the same as saying YES to the affair.
Then I tell her: Divorce is my last option. Until you end the affair, this marriage and our daughter has no chance. And I will not agree to a separation or sign anything until it is over. Until that time, our daughter cannot be around your destructive behaviour so you must leave the family home. Now.
I'll speak with a lawyer in the morning to inquire as to how to insure that your cheques continue to support the family.
