She Say's She Want's Out Of The Marriage

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It truly pisses me off as well to know someone could just throw something away as precious as an entire family.

She told me the other day that she sees no other choice because of the way it's affecting the children. My D15 is pissed as hell for her tearing the family apart and for some reason my W thinks that by making a decision me D15 will be cool with it.

we're civil and getting along. She actually had me over for dinner on fathers day and she gave me gifts from the children. It was a really nice and surprising gesture. I told the children thank you and that I'm not used to getting gifts for fathers day. My W said she always gets me something for Fathers Day. It was and incorrect statement, but she believes it.

When we were talking the other day she said she may change her mind one day. it could be in a few months or 6 months who knows. She also said she realizes it could be too late by the point. I know for sure she will probably regret it and it probably will be too late.

I refuse to wait around for her to change her mind now that she has filed and made this decision. it was completely different when we were actively working to save our marriage. Now the dynamic of things has changed drastically.

I think this really sucks and is very unfortunate, but I know for sure that I'm going to be just fine.