Thanks, AA. Family therapy would be nice but no extra funds available. I'm in Calgary, Alberta so if there is a list of DB type therapists I'd appreciate it.
Your action suggestions seem a little "counter" to the things I've been offered over the last two days. I went a little "hard #ss" on her request about transferring Calla.
I appreciate the recommendations on the affair confrontation. I hope to get that in tonight. I still have to "suggest" the home time for Calla tonight. (just did-When can I expect you so Calla can sleep normal hours?)
If she avoids discussion (bathing and quickly to bed) what do I do? Go through her luggage?
I need this out. Just tell her I need to talk to her before bed?
