Just Confronted - A Litttle Confused

[TimeHeals]

I have never seen anger so deep from her as I have now.

I have. The anger is focused on you because blaming you for everything is easier. Anger feels enabling, you feel stronger than you would feeling guilty or sad.

It's another part of grieving too, and it's something you may go through yourself from time to time, but try to keep things in perspective.

This is one of the things that going dark helps with. As she heaps all of this horrid anger on you, you will get closer and closer to tossing in the towel for good yourself.

Pulling back and going dark until you heal allows you to reach healthy perspective.