Making REALLY good progress with Larry's program - these last two days have been WONDERFUL! WH's helping with house stuff, interacting with kids, and even talking about things at work. I feel like I'm a time warp, circa 2004.
DD 10 said something a while ago that made me LOL, and I heard WH laugh as well. I said, "Did you hear that?" and he said, "No - just heard you laugh and had to laugh as well. Haven't heard it enough of late -- "
Thank you, Larry!
Speaking of whom, I'm enjoying my results 4 weeks into the program. Larry has you go through a series of exercises every day and record your progress 2x a week on a report card. He says when you get to 95%, you'll start to see changes in your spouse.
Guess what? Just recorded my score...and I'm at 96%! Woo-hoo! Happy dance.
I also just checked my online sales for the last 36 hours and am getting a FLOOD of traffic and sales from some search engine optimization work I did MONTHS ago. Yee-haw!
Better relationship AND better business all at the same time? I'm gobsmacked!
Please, Lord - let all the planets align in my favor and stay there for a good long while! I've been MUCH too long on the dark side of the moon --
JTC - I'm sorry the program isn't working as well for you. It IS much harder when he's out of the house. I would suggest just keeping each interaction with him light and happy for now, and try not to rag on him in front of your girls. My guess is he'll be back once the fantasy fizzles.
Check out WhatNow's thread over on MLC forum (I think the title is "MLCer or addicted infidel?") for more guidance on how to handle a spouse who's moved out. Hers has been gone since December and is now making noise like he wants to come back. She's doing an amazing job, given her situation.
BTW - did your husband move out before, during, or after you took Larry's course?
