I am doing my best to stay away from her. She came to me, and the situation just deteriorated faster than I have ever seen.
One minute it was "I think we should see that counselor to smooth the tension between us and make the divorce easier" and the next it was "I am sooooo furious at you I just want to make your life a living Hell this whole time".
And then the "Well I was about to setup an online dating profile, and I don't care what agreement we had about dating. I WANT TO HAVE FUN". She then said she doesn't care what I think and it is "just my jealousy that she will be with other guys dating and sexually" that is making it hard.
I have never seen anger so deep from her as I have now. It seems to be all that she focuses on. And no 180 or DB I think would even make a dent in that. I get it, it has to be FOR ME. But I'm seeing very dark days ahead and it REALLY sucks.
She is in the "I hate him so much" stage I think. I really, really hope that this passes and things get easier.
And she does still text him because I see the online phone logs. But he never texts her back otherwise I would see it.
Last edited by Quicksilver264; 06/20/1010:01 PM.
Me - 32 Her -30 Married - 7 Years Together - 9 Years No Kids 05/21 - Bomb 6/8 - Exposed 7/9 - Re-Exposed 06/11 - She Filed