I'm fairly new at posting, but have been lurking for a while. I'm sorry you feel so awful. I was in IC for two years and it helped me get through the darkest time in my life, it really did.

((konfuseeed))

Me - Faithful wife
H - WAH
Bomb: Fall/2009 - PA/EA with OW for 1 year
Both in our early 40's
M - 16 years w/ no kids
T - 21 years
Separated since July of 2008 - H living with his mother