So... she called on Wednesday, and it's now Monday. I feel like I should be writing her an email soon... but I've got NO IDEA how to strike up that conversation.

I don't ever really want to reference the phone call, because that would be drifting dangerously close to relationship talk.

... so how do I phrase it? How do I start the conversation?... any thoughts/advice?

Me: 29
H: 25
T:7yrs
M:5yrs

Bomb: 23/04/10

Had no idea anything was wrong. Cheated so she could end it without talking.