So I guess I’m looking for someone to tell me what to do? Do I just keep being nice, and walk through the amicable steps of a D with her? Do I drag my feet? Do I fight it much(worried about effect on kids)?

She is still in the house, and wants to tell kids ASAP. They are out of school now, so I told her we can tell 14 year old tonight or probably tomorrow night, so as to not scar father’s day for her. Then when the 8 yr old gets back from camping with my bro, we need to tell her some how.

Any words of advice on how to tell an 8 year old that your getting a D? (it’s going to destroy her frown )

Also – what are your thoughts on me scolding W for taking 14 yr old to concert where OM was also present?


from my fortune cookie,,,,,,"Adversity is the test for strong men"
Me -44
WAW - 43
D14
D8
EA/PA mid May,2010
WAW moved out- 07/01/10
WAW filed 07/01/10