CW- thanks for the message and I have been trying to reply but FB is down. (I actually think FB often has lots of malfunctions!) So I saved the message and will be replying when FB works again!
awesome link though...
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004