THE OW CONTACTED ME - WHAT??

[lea74]

Interesting day. XH and OW dropped off my sons today after a w weekend visit. As usual they pulled up outside my house. However, this time I was outside having a BBQ with my neighbours. I was sitting when they arrived and didnt see me. They both got out of the car and as usual the OW made the usual huge scene - expecting me to be inside as usual. I stood up and they saw me, my neighbours and friends also stepped forward greet my sons. My XH said good byes to my sons with a watchful eye on me, and the OW stepped forward to hug my sons, then backstepped she saw me standing there and my friends and went back to the car.

It felt great, like I was claiming my turf back!! I think it was quite obvious that I do have a life and my sons and I have fantastic support.

The wheels didnt exactly screech when they left, but they certainly drove away quite guickly with my XH constantly watching me.

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