Would it be out of place for me to tell H he needs to come to drop-off and pick-ups alone, that it's too uncomfortable (read: painful) to me when he has someone with him?
I think you'd be better off not saying anything to H about OW. Especially that it's uncomfortable/painful for you. I can't imagine that H wouldn't relay that info to OW. I subscribe to the keep your friends close and your enemies closer school. I wouldn't give OW any sort of ammunition to use against you.
I know it sucks having to see pg whore, but it's vital to appear calm, cool and collected. I've never had to see my H's whore in person, but when she comes up, I don't present myself as being threatened. I stick to the facts that H's OW sleeps w/married men and that 'nice girls' don't screw other ppl's H's. Make sense?
M & H: 40 M: 5.5 T: 7.5 OW: 7/09 Bomb: 9/09 Sep: 3/10 H files 7/10
