Read the first chapter of divorce remedy TWolf, MWD explains the impact of divorce quite clearly in there...

The mediator is NOT a child psychologist... So why entrust your SON's mental health in the hands of a damn LAWYER?

50% of the american kids are also MISERABLE

Your wife is not doing any research... I suggest YOU DO IT and the you can speak intelligently, reference psychologists, research studies, etc and they CAN'T