Hearing from ALOT of people that time is working against me, ESPECIALLY with the fact that she is with her EX. Also hearing that once their relationship goes physical ( if it hasnt already) that that is IT for us, because she will have " given herself " to him. Then I hear that the majority of rebound relationships dont work, something I've heard before.
Then I hear and see people on this site that sometimes have to go a year or more, often times with infidelity included in the process and STILL manage to reconcile their R's.