Wow, CW you sure handled yourself well when H was trying to talk to you and "be nice." I mean instead of getting sucked in, you kept your distance and showed him you weren't falling over him, if that makes sense. You are showing him that even though life is hard for you and the kids, you are strong and will get over him so he better watch out! Do you see what I mean?

And I totally could relate when it just slipped out when you asked "Why?" I have totally just asked a q automatically without really wanting to know the answer!

But the BEST is hearing that OW was waiting in the car! In the heat! And having to know he was in there, talking to you and the kids! Remember, even though they are with our Hs, they will ALWAYS be threatened by our existence and jealous! Seriously!
I remember when I dated a divorced man and although I knew he and his ex were DONE, it still made me feel jealous when they had to communicate or when she would show up! And I was a legitimate, honest girlfriend- not a cheating mistress!

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004