Yeah. As i said, I currently have two kids; 2 and 19.

I'm going to send the "I can and I have. I'll call your mom right now with apologies. i am spending today with my daughter"

Next items up will be getting her to talk face to face in order to do the three objectives.
Issues-
It is supposed to be W's week as primary care for Calla. Obviuosly, I don't want my daughter dragged all over the place in order for W to have her "man-hating, b#tch sessions"
How do I approach that and force her "to the table?"

Obviously, I'm gonna have to get legal counsel in the morning.

My ears are wide open and waiting for my experts.