2 weeks left to DB

[newmama]

So a WAS can turn alien without becoming 'mean-mouthed'.

yep- my stbxh has NEVER said anything mean to me! I am thinking about BD and Gatsby's Hs and I don't recall them saying mean things to them, either. I guess because they all know they are soooo low for abandoning us while pregnant, right?


Well, Piano, I have to say that "being the better option" at least stalled my D. I mean stbxh (Sorry but I HAVE to call him that to get it through my head!) has admitted he has been uncertain this whole time. Of course he is still divorcing me but my goal was to make him want to come back to me, so at least he is uncertain about being with OW vs me, which means I had some impact, right?

So my point in telling you this is that it is certainly worth a try if you WANT to go for it. After all, there are other women on this board who used this method and it worked.

You have already exposed and gone NC...didn't help your sitch so we are supposed to do what works, right?

Something that has prevented me from being angry (even though I WANTED to be angry) is that I thought of how stbxh was going through some kind of surreal mental crisis. Will this help you do you think?