My game has changed from WAW to EA/PA HELP!!

[CD Bear]

Thanks, PDT.
I'm trying to get back into last night's mindset. D is a bit of a distraction this morning. Wish I had a few hours alone to concenrate on this alone.

I'll post any texts or voicemails I get. Considering how quiet she got last night after the 'D sleeping question', I think my question is answered.

However, she is expecting to pick D up to take to her mom's for dinner. And, quite frankly, I don't believe she deserves it nor do I believe it is appropriate. Last night I also thought that I would call her mom (after our chat) to tell her that "unfortunately, Calla will not be able to attend. Firstly, it is Fathers Day. And something else has come up that makes it impossible. Sorry. Perhaps K can fill you in when she gets there" That'll make for an interesting dinner and perhaps turn mom off of support. Maybe her spine will grow back.

So, the dinner issue forces her to deal with me/this today.

I just have to get mentally and emotionally ready for it.

[Puppy Dog Tails]

I would just say "It's Father's Day, and I've decided that I'd like to spend the day with my daughter." And leave it at that for now.

Puppy

[CD Bear]

I'm thinking I should wait for her to contact me; preferrably by coming home.

I don't feel I should text her the change in plans because-
-she'll likely not come home.
-it will remind her it's Father's Day. Curious to see if the PEA's blinded her to that fact, too

[CD Bear]

'Cause I'm thinking she hasn't got a card for me, at least from my D.

[CD Bear]

Here we go! Just got the first text.

I'll give a couple minutes before I read it. I'll post it then.

Stand by.

[CD Bear]

First text-
"I will come get Calla around 3:30"

[Greek]

"It's Father's Day, and I've decided that I'd like to spend the day with my daughter."

^Your reply

[CD Bear]

Done. this next text will be interesting, I'm sure.

[CD Bear]

W text-

"That's why I asked you earlier, your response was "its family right?" My mom is making dinner and they (her cousins)are taking a cab to my moms to spend time with us. I don't think this is fair. They fly back tomorrow. You can't say yes then change your mind when arrangements have been made"

[Greek]

W text-

"That's why I asked you earlier, your response was "its family right?" My mom is making dinner and they (her cousins)are taking a cab to my moms to spend time with us. I don't think this is fair. They fly back tomorrow. You can't say yes then change your mind when arrangements have been made"

"Yes, I can and I have. I'll call your mother with apologies. I want to be with my daughter on Father's Day."
Greek