Thanks, PDT. I'm trying to get back into last night's mindset. D is a bit of a distraction this morning. Wish I had a few hours alone to concenrate on this alone.
I'll post any texts or voicemails I get. Considering how quiet she got last night after the 'D sleeping question', I think my question is answered.
However, she is expecting to pick D up to take to her mom's for dinner. And, quite frankly, I don't believe she deserves it nor do I believe it is appropriate. Last night I also thought that I would call her mom (after our chat) to tell her that "unfortunately, Calla will not be able to attend. Firstly, it is Fathers Day. And something else has come up that makes it impossible. Sorry. Perhaps K can fill you in when she gets there" That'll make for an interesting dinner and perhaps turn mom off of support. Maybe her spine will grow back.
So, the dinner issue forces her to deal with me/this today.
I just have to get mentally and emotionally ready for it.