Good for you IB for leaving a text. I always felt good in my heart that I was doing the right thing and acknowledging holidays etc. Your h even gave a response.

Nice job! Enjoy your day regardless of what your h is up to.

Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"