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She then came to me told me that she thinks we should go to counseling to ease the tension and smooth the divorce over.


Repeat after me: "I do not need a counselor to get a divorce. I am already seeing a counselor for my own personal reasons".


No more. She wants you to hire somebody to help you get divorced? That's what lawyers are for.

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I then later caught her signing up for a dating site and confronted her because we have an agreement


What is this agreement? Is it a reasonable boundary like "I will not live with you if you are dating other people"?

If so, then tell her she has to move if that's what she wants to do.

Why do you not stay away from her like everybody asks? You could avoid some of this conflict if you just did that.

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She still texts the Facebook guy, but he wants nothing to do with her at all.


Says who?

Last edited by TimeHeals; 06/20/10 01:14 PM.
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D-filed 5/27/2010
Piecing - 10/21/2010
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