I don't know how you do it... you are a strong woman. You handled the Subway stop and the nighttime drop-by amazingly.
Dan & my XH sound a LOT a like.. I suppose it's the Iowa cattleman/farmer thing.
if it is healthy for you that he does that (drops by pretty much on a 2 second notice) then fine. If it's not, then create a boundary.
Yeah, when reality hits them in the face (as the fishing scenario did for Dan) for a split second I think they can see what they did for what it was and the consequences.... and they can't handle the shame.
You sound good...hope you are staying dry? Peace Bridge
Divorced 03/2010 Mom to two amazing kids
Taking the road less traveled because those encountered on the way may be just as unique.
