I felt like it was something I wanted to share with her. Our D2 potty training has been a problem for a while. I guess maybe I wanted to brag a bit!? This is the first time she has actually peed in something other than her diaper! I also had something that I wanted to share about how I got her to go. I gave her a cup of water while she sat there. She started playing in the water and then she peed! Ex thought it was a cool trick.
I could have told her on monday but the excitement would have worn off by then.
As for your question about what I want to do...I am starting to get back to normal after signing the papers so a little contact from her is fine. My stance is going to be open to talking but not best buddies. I don't want to know too much about her life right now. That is part of why I want to separate myself from the in-laws too.
Me 35 Wife 34 Two daughters 8 years and 3 years Bomb 3/30/09 W filed 4/16/09 We met in'92 married in 2000 Divorce final