I'm sure of it. All I think I'll try to say is "Thank you. I'll have to think about that some more. Shall we have a look at your luggage and cell phone?"
Stay detached. Don't fall for any physical attempts. See her as potentially dirty. And believe nothing. VERIFY!!
If, and only if, she comes out squeaky clean (phone and luggae, too. And perhaps receipts and a call from "Amanda", will my daughter go to her moms for dinner.
