Need help Busting Affair.

[elvencat]

I still say expose that woman at her University... make sure all her students know she's pursuing a married man and violating a family... but I appear to be in the minority on that one... lol

I want to do this... just haven't gotten up enough nerve yet.

When he wants help? What do you do about it?

Example? You mean he asks for it, or does he walk around sighing and groaning about his pain?

HUSBAND : I am in a lot of pain

WIFE : Yup, cheating on your wife and child will put a strain on your head wont it?

Actually both examples happen.. he will ASK for help, but it's a very rare thing.. usually it's moaning and groaning and not coming up with any ways to help himself. And I like that particular truth dart so much, I've used it - several times. I need a new one.

If he goes to OW and wants to whine at her, let him... She'll get sick of it eventually... You are earning a grad degree while she baby sits your overgrown child of a husband... She won't like that setup long term... Particularly if she's being publically humiliated in the process... she will realize you are using HER and get rid of him I would figure

I'm hoping this will happen, but don't see it as likely. He's been using her as his complaint/enabling system for over a year, and she's got a strong BS tolerance. Her family is a piece of work and yet she hasn't done anything to extract herself from her own situation she's been in for years. I think in this case SHE's using HIM as well as the other way around, and he doesn't see that yet.

Objects at rest tend to stay at rest unless acted on by an outside force..... If miss biology professor hasn't figured that one out yet, she deserves to be exposed at the university.

And since the FT is a professor for the same university, I want his opinion of a colleague acting this way. Just gotta come up with the money for a session first.