Originally Posted By: SunnyD
You know, "Don't think this changes anything!" So, the next time I asked specifically when he started things up. I got the response that, "Well...we talked about it, so it's OK." The weird part is, he's trying harder now to please me than he has in years... and the sex is better than it has been. So, of course I'm enjoying it. It bothers me, of course, that I don't get the ILY though. I'm not sure how long I can keep up the unemotional sex but for now I'm just going along with it yet I'm not sure I should! I don't act clingy or anything afterwards. I act as detached as he does!
That is exactly what I am going through. It just confuses me. I will go along with it if it happens again, as I hope it is her feelings subconsciously reaching out.


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