You and OW are competing for his support outlet...
What do I say?
Let her do it...
You work on learning how to make a great marrige and getting done school... If your H wants to blow his life away let him...
I still say expose that woman at her University... make sure all her students know she's pursuing a married man and violating a family... but I appear to be in the minority on that one... lol
When he wants help? What do you do about it?
Example? You mean he asks for it, or does he walk around sighing and groaning about his pain?
HUSBAND : I am in a lot of pain
WIFE : Yup, cheating on your wife and child will put a strain on your head wont it?
I would take advantage of it to throw a truth dart at him... If he goes to OW and wants to whine at her, let him... She'll get sick of it eventually... You are earning a grad degree while she baby sits your overgrown child of a husband... She won't like that setup long term... Particularly if she's being publically humiliated in the process... she will realize you are using HER and get rid of him I would figure
