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Will do. Been 30 mins and it's still unread.
This is not what I had in mind for Father's Day. Nice.

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Did you send an e-mail, or a text message?

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Hi PDT-
On the other thread in Necomers, Coach alluded to a script about her choices, boundaries, consequences, etc.

ie "to get it right you have to be able to let her go (detach) and this requires confidence on your part. You and your family deserve your wife's complete attention. How you say it is with conviction that she is free to choose how she behaves and that her choice has consequences.

She chooses you she can stay.

She wants to spend her time, money, affection, energy and family resources with another man than she can go.

You have to be able to wrap your head around this to say it with conviction, confidence, composure and compassion. Your wife will test your conviction on this.

She will respect you for standing up for yourself, your family and fighting for her. she won't respect you if you are a doormat and she can push you around. We will give you the script to say to her. You have to buy into this or you won't get a second chance. Make sense?"

I might want to start learning that one now, eh?

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Callsdad Just rember Listen to these guys and have faith man and rember some one told me this on here once.

Go to your wife grab her purse and take those two things that look like rasins and stuff them back down your pants.

Once i learned to do that i never became scared of loosing her or being her door matt any more.


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divorce finale 6/16/10
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Blackberry Messenger text.
She lives on that.
Still unread. She shows as "unavailable".
Oh. Phone just vibrated as I type this.

She sent "Huh?"

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Two hours to get the message.

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And it just vibrated again. I haven't read it as it will tell her I have read it and done nothing.

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And another since "Huh?"

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What did they say just HUH


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Second one is:
I'm confused
Third one is:
Is Calla sleeping.

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