"Died down"?? You got over 7,000 views and over 600 responses, just on the last thread alone. What is it you're looking for, by keeping on switching between the two forums? Someone to tell you what you want to hear?
I could care less about my own knucklehead advice, but this is the second time (at least) that you've done this, and it just strikes me as rude of you toward the few of people like Allen and CityGirl and TimeHeals and Sandi who have taken SO much time and posted SO much excellent advice to you.
