Crap...Back to squareone again.

I have been doing my 180s but Its just not working. I have never been real communicative with my wife, so as a 180 I have been tring to talk to her. I guees it is too much. Now she complains I am always "around" and she needs her space.

I will give her space. But I am confused with the 180, should I do it or just go dark for a while? Please help.


Me 31 Wife 34
(Step)D 15 /(Step)S 13 / D 6
Married 3/3/01
Separated 6/4/10
Bomb 6/14/10
Served 6/22/10
EA/PA Discovered 7/5/10
Now Back Together 8/1/10