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Another idea:

Send her only this simple text:

"You underestimate me."

And nothing more. When she blows up your phone with calls and texts, don't answer any of them.

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Really? Three words and no hint at the affair?

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I'm not sure if that just doesn't reelk of a head game.
Can you give me the experience behind it?

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Quote:
Send her only this simple text:

"You underestimate me."

The sad thing is, she probably does underestimate him. Which, IMO, means her response will be more along the lines of "Oh please" than shaking in her boots.

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i have to admit that in the last few months she probably has seen more of a mat than a man. That's why I though the original Greek or Puppy had more "teeth". Then again, the simplicity of the 3 words flies right in the face of her current impression.
still stuck and losing time to act.

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One doesn't say "You underestimate me," and ONLY that, unless he is wise to something.

And you're DAMNED RIGHT it's a head game. The goal is to spoil her fun!!

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Originally Posted By: Callasdad

still stuck and losing time to act.


Then pick one of the two (or three, including yours) and GO WITH IT.

There IS no perfect DBing, CD. Err on the side of doing SOMETHING. You're dithering.

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Thanks. She has both played head games (rings, etc) and underestimated me. Do I read the taxts (she'll be notified) or just put my phone "away" and listen to Vmail if I get any?

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Sent the three word. Delivered but unread as of yet.
Keep you posted.

Considering adding the other one two as follow up.

Thoughts?

Do I read responses or just let it all ride for the evening and read in the am?

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Read the responses, but DON'T respond! Post them here.

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