Yes I get that, but if you followed Gloria's advice most of these women would be in jail for assault...
When someone shoves you in a church the ADULT thing to do is to get the law to handle it in my opinion...
Ken CAN handle the RO in a way that sets an example of maturity and adulthood, OR he can handle it in a way that makes him look like a coward and a fool, hoping to hide behind a piece of paper...
If Ken verbally announces to his wife he's getting the RO to protect his KIDS from this man, that he does NOT want his CHILDREN around violent men, I think that will help his case...
This man is a bully, yes, but confronting him man to man isn't going to end well... This guy's gonna throw a punch, Ken's gonna throw one back... I just don't see his wife GROWING UP with an experience like that.. It will just FEED this childish romance fantasy of hers... Having two men beating each other senseless for her affection... I don't advocate that... The marriage needs SERIOUS adult example... Not more romantic fantasies realized...
Ken could end up in jail and the OM not charged at all... The law is fickle that way... I don't think one should roll the dice with that...
When there is a home and children involved, fisticuffs are not the best solution... and this OM is clearly not going to back off simply from intimidation...
I think smarts is the way to beat this guy... Not with fists...
