So something confusing just happened. I had my son all day today and I have to work tomorrow so I won't see him until W is back from dinner. She sent me a text if she can bring our son to the dinner. I told her that won't be a problem I'll see him when I get home. She followed with this line "Are we making a mistake"?
I asked what mistake? she said "This......Divorce". I replied with "I wish I knew, I really do".....
I think you missed a golden opportunity here, FFH. I would have liked to have seen you respond something like "I understand what you're saying, and I can only speak for myself. I can honestly say that everything I've done, I've done to try to fight for my marriage and my family. I never wanted a divorce (still don't), but I will sleep well knowing I was faithful, and I didn't cut and run from "us," and chose instead to fight for our marriage."