PDT- I'm beginning to lean toward this postion too as I haven't heard boo from her since 6 pm yesterday (24 hrs). My though t is that since she told me her concern that "Amanda" had a surprise outing for her that involved her to pack some clothes and a bathing suit, I would set the tone like this-
CD- So what was Amanda's big surprise?"
W- (Either of these is likely) a-Don't know yet b-(some other incredulous story) c-something that actually DOES some plausible.
If A or B, I come back with:
CD- Well I have one. Your words and actions don't add up. I know what you're really up to. I hope it's worth the amount of disrespect you are showing me: our family: and Calla."
And then go completely dark til tomorrow.
Nothing short of her showing up here will change that.
If I'm wrong, this will be somewhat rude. And I can only hope that I can recover with "flowers, sex candy, 'wherever' on your bday with a friend I don't know, you don't say where, bring a bathing suit, Kelowna to see cousin next in a condo I've never heard of before, ...lots of dots and I'm not the only one who thinks it adds up to an A. I couldn't sit by knowing what I thought it was and not fight for you."
This scares the h#ll out of me cause it's ALL OR NOTHING and I hate being painted into this corner.
Can somebody PLEASE respond with something before I push the "button"? I don't want to do this wrong.
It also came to me that I might also add 'When this all started I was all for us getting some time and space to think this through and rediscover ourselves. But if this is the K**** you were looking for, I won't participate any longer"
Greek's/Coach's is much better. If you're going to make a statement, MAKE A STATEMENT -- don't preface it with some phony opportunity for her to just lie to you.
