WCW, I'm changing to move forward immediately. I like that and I will be more careful in the future.
Snodderly, I have been dealing with some questions lately about something you touched upon above... I don't know if my H is capable of being faithful. In fact, I'm starting to look back at his life from teenage hood on and it seems unlikely. He may be telling OW now that he loves her, she's his soul mate (yeah, we all know that line... and the brain chemicals that contribute to those feelings, at least temporarily) He and I were very, very good together - best friends, good lovers, 99% common interests, etc. Yet, every single time we had minor issues, he would run to an OW... and he did the same in his first M.
Thanks CW.
Mila, I'm so ready to see you MOVE FORWARD - let's go! So excited to see you getting your life together and the ability to make a living w/o H, should it ever come to that. (hope it doesn't)
