Whe she dropped the bomb, I drew up a Conditions of Seperation Agreement with more specifics than the standard web available crap. She asked where I got it. said I wrote it. She disagreed. I showed her the pen written rough copy. I told her I'd like her input and not expecting her to sign it right now. She said she wouldn't anyway. It had interim banking; how we would self-direct the dissolution; Calla comes !st in everything; no duelling lawyers, etc. And she hasn't done anything about it since. Limbo land. Since that time she has been more "concerned" with our banking but I now can also see that as self interest, too. My original intention was to split even" but her reluctance to match my act of dumping an RSP into our account to keep us afloat leads me to believe ther is extreme selfishness happening so my counter-action will be to show that ALL the equity put as the down payment on this new house was MINE in the previous house (my old house). Keep your RSP and I'll keep the equity in this house. We'll split the debt. And this situation only strengthens my view and position. Add that I have her email showing she was thinking about Divorce before we bought this place (4 mos pregnant; married almost a year) even has a gold-digger feel. And I ain't gold. But had more than her. In addition, she's spending 600 of ours to do a warranty claim on her truck tires (new tires for her) and asked me to look into Extended Warranty for the truck. I'm sure as h#ll not paying half of the warranty on "her" truck. Cut her costs for her? Not bloody likely.
