Btw, you don't sound like an idiot! Hey, if my wife said she still loved me I'd be flipping all over the place too! Last week me and a couple of male co-workers, all divorced (except myself, of course), were talking on break and I remember saying to one guy that maybe he was the lucky one because his wife got up one morning, told him the M was over, was leaving, "have a nice life" and that was it. No more contact, no fuss, no muss...but who am I to say his pain is any less than mine or anyone elses. There is no lucky in the D game. Hang in there Geronimo, you'll make it.
