Who knows why she invited you! She's in 50 different directions. You are in ONE direction - being the best man and father you can be. She's either on board or not. Either way, you are fine.
It might be guilt. Glad you didn't accommodate her.
Get dark and stay dark. Be mysterious. Do you have the little guy tomorrow? If so, take him out for the day - maybe a day trip that keeps you out of the house and out of pocket for the entire day. She can wonder where you are. You'll be enjoying yourself with your little man.
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