Yesterday didn't give me any time to work on getting to H's IC because I had a job interview (YAY!) and I had to take our pet birds to the vet for beak trimmings (oh, joy).
Last night, however, H and I were talking about licensed rheumatologists in our area (he got referred yesterday, so maybe we can get closer to some answers on his pain issues). I brought up the licensure site for our state that shows anyone who has received any kind of license to work with the public and that he could look there to see the names of all licensed rheumis in the area.
H wanted to know how I knew about the site. I used it as an opportunity to explain to him I had been looking for a LICENSED marital and family therapist and that, guess what! there were only TWO in the whole county...
He actually didn't blow me off and asked why I thought the one I was interested in would be any good... I told him we'd spoken through email and I had done research on reviews of his work. The FT also has a website that is quite good at explaining his views on working with couples and marriages in crisis.
H asked me to send him the link in an email so he could read it on his own....
Now, I'm not being optimistic about this.. actually, I'm still rather pessimistic about him ever agreeing to go, but he'd never expressed interest in knowing any more information before beyond me saying I wanted to go.
Me 32, H 34, DD 3 M 6, T 8 Bomb 03/10 OW Bomb 6/5/10 Separate & NC 6/28/10 My 2nd EA Thread
