Coach just told me that he thinks you should text tonight and say "I know what you're up to, and I sure hope it's worth it." He says he thinks you have enough dots to connect that she is up to nothing good. He says that is what he would do.
He says he would send that text and don't respond to anything she sends back or any calls. Let her come home to it. If you're right, good move. If you're wrong, you tell her "W, flowers, sex candy, out of town on your bday with a friend I don't know, you don't say where, bring a bathing suit, out of town to see cousins next, ...lots of dots and I'm not the only one who thinks it adds up to an A. I couldn't sit by knowing what I thought it was and not fight for you." Coach also said that if she denies it, you should ask her to lay her phone out to you and let you see what's on it right then and there. Her reaction to that will tell you a lot, too.
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This!! ^
Absolutely agree. Even covers your a$$ with the " . . . and not fight for you" construction. What woman could argue with that??
The idea is to RUIN HER PLANS, and let it eat at her. That's what "infidelitus interruptus" is all about. No, we can't control them when they're wayward, but nowhere does it say we have to sit by and let them ENJOY it.
