I agree with Allen. Don't engage in her childish games. When she starts to cross the line from conversation to argument or when she starts saying ugly hurtful things just say (or text), "Ok, I'll just talk to you when you feel better." and then be done.
Put the responsibility back on her. If you act like an adult and she acts like a child, then treat her as you would a child. I would go dark and only talk about things you HAVE to talk about - Your Son. Her little world w/OM can't or won't crumble if she has you to vent her anger on or blame when shes in a bad mood. If you are not there, then she and OM will have to live the reality of their R and not the "Camp Snoopy" version.
Like Allen said, don't do the back and forth. Say what you have to say and if she becomes argumentative end the convo. Do not engage in a verbal or text sparring match with her. This ionly justifies her position in her own mind. This will also force OM to deal with her childish behavior. Its cute when it those two against you, but its not going to be quite as fun when that type of nonsense is directed at him. He will probably get tired of it pretty quickly.
Last edited by Sugar and Spice; 06/19/1006:36 PM.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
