Don't call your wife a prize, my gut tells me she finds that to be objectifying...
WIFE : I am not your prize
YOU : I am fighting for a marriage here, jump in and help anytime...
that may have more impact...
Do not tell her she's a prize... she isn't a trophy in a race man, she's likley taking that as an insult... You aren't fightin fro HER, you are fighting for a MARRIAGE... a FAMILY...
This not about YOU vs OM trying to win your prize wife
THis IS about YOUR FAMILY confronting theat of divorce, hoping to win back a marriage
Its ok to CONFRONT your wife when she crosses a line, but do NOT ARGUE about the point...
You state your point and EXIT... no back and forth debate...
This is what happens :
1. Your wife says something offensive 2. You counter back 3. She makes a nasty crack to insult you 4. You think its a game and start throwing insults back
It just gets WORSE for EACH VOLLEY...
Do this :
1. Your wife says something offensive 2. You state your boundary for what you will tolerate - and you WALK AWAY/HANG UP
