I absolutely agree. I think "thank you for D" should suffice. My WH didn't acknowledge Mother's Day. He used to always tease me that I wasn't his mother, but he got me something anyway. This year, nada.

ME: 54
Him: 51
M: 20 years T: 21 years
OW/New wife: 36
Sons & Daughters: 7 (ages 24-36)
Bomb: March 4, 2010
He Filed: April 28, 2010
I Contested: May 1, 2010
Standing Down: 11/24/10
Divorced : 05/04/2011