lol!--I don't know that we're really "a thing" even now! that's the confusing part. can you be a "thing" 800 miles apart...even on a good day?!
oh, gosh no. he's not healed...altho much further along than a year ago. same for me. and he's not ready. I know that. but there's clearly something happening here, and it's good, and when he is ready...well, there's likely to be someone around and not 800 miles away.
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012