Yea he just called she is giving him a little bit of guilt thing to him tonight. That it wouldnt of happened if he just would of talked to her more.I told him that he has to take it fo a little while but start setting up boundries.
She told him she wanted to get her number changed so he wont call her anymore.
I guess she told him that she does not want me coming over to their house for a few weeks.Because she is embarrised that me and a couple other people know the whole stich. She allso told him that me and cousin shouln't talk for a few weeks.
Cousin told me tonight thanks for being spot on and sorry he was not their for me more when i went through my stich and said he understans now what hell i went through.
Sounds like you now have some friends to lean on the OM in your situation... when communities get educated TWolf they DO help each other.. a large part of this is the WS not educated how wreckless their straying is and the LBS not educated in how to handle the wrecklessness...
The more people you help TWolf the better..
My advice? Go over there anyways and talk to his WS.. tell her your WIFE is doing the SAME DAMN THING to YOU... educate her, she may even talk to your wife for you.... who knows...
She shouldn't be embarassed... not with you anyhow, you are living it right now yourself... she has nothing to hide
