What newmama said! I couldn't have said it any better. But, DB strategy is not necessarily to ignore, cut off all contact, go dark (Dbers often so misuse going dark) etc. it is to try things but cut your losses when they don't work and try something else and if something is working, keep it up! Yet, with any strategy you have to have a goal, I don't think Geronimo has one yet. Do you want to build a co-parenting approach with ex or do you want to continue trying to save your M. Neither is wrong but you have to know what you want! I don't think either party here does, so best to sit back and regroup for a bit.
