Just found out she already filed

[ImprovedRomeo]

So went to DD's graduation party at her school. STBXW brought DD over a few mins after I got there. I didn't really pay any attention to STBXW, I was just moving around taking pics of DD and her friends. They looked so cute in their gowns and caps

Then we went into her classroom to sit down, I noticed STBXW was already sitting down. She turned around and looked at me as I was still taking pics. Then she turned away before we caught eachother's eyes. So I walked over and sat down next to her leaving one chair open in between us. They were way too close together and I didn't want to catch her cooties

Other moms started talking to her about her job etc and I felt a bit left out for those few moments but then I started talking to the dad (whom I told last time we were splitting up) about the soccer game and the basketball game. STBXW tried to join into the conversation too. Anyways, the ceremony was so cute with their slide shows etc it was emotional for me. DD's been going there since she was just 2 I still remember the first day and now she was graduating from kindergarden.

Later both DD and STBXW walked over to me, I gave DD a few hugs. She wanted cake so STBXW and DD went over to get it. Then I noticed STBXW from 20 feet away trying to ask me if I wanted any. I shook my head to say no. I noticed a few kids had brought flowers for the teachers and I felt like we should've too. I told STBXW. Later I regretted it because she probably took that as criticism on her as if I were saying she should've brough flowers. Anyway, a few mins later she said 'I'm gonna get going so DD won't...you know...start crying. Don't forget to pick up her stuff from the cubby'. I said 'OK thanks'. She left and DD and I hung out for a bit. Then as I was gather up the stuff I realized her folder/portfolio was missing and I knew STBXW took it. So I called her and asked she said yeah she took it, nice!! so I immediately said 'well...I was going to take it along with the other stuff and the father's day card DD made is in it' - she said 'I can bring it back, I just wanted to see it'. I said 'OK' and hung up.

Anyway, I'm going to take DD out today to find her a Webkinz toy (thanks BBJ for the idea!!!) and Sun there's a bbq/picnic planned.