Just read your entire thread, Red. Wheeee! Very interested in the techniques that Larry is teaching. Sounds very much like what I always thought from the gut, but then when I read up on exposing A's, etc., I figured I had not been educated enough on the subject. And as an AWAW, it still stung to think about "exposure".
So, I join the others in anticipation of all you are learning and sharing with us. I also agree that the student will be through with your H when she doesn't need him any longer. But he isn't convinced of that, apparently, and your patient is running thin about the finances. But....30 days! Wouldn't that be wonderful?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!