I talked to my WH last night about this divorce. He expressed uncertainty. Arghhh! I posted the detail in my thread in Surviving the Big D. It felt good to get some things off my chest since I never said them due to DBing rules.

BD what are you getting your H for Father's Day?

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004