still separated, headed for D?

[Piano]

It's his stupid fault! I'd be annoyed too.

Been thinking lots about you newmama. You tried to be the 'better option', and although you excelled at improving yourself and acting with grace, it didn't turn your WH around (alhough I bet it made him think twice on more than one occasion!!!). Whereas I have been inconsistant, sometimes a raving lunatic, and that hasn't turned my WH around either.

I guess the moral of that story being that when there is an OW there is just so little we can do.

But - and this is a big but- the way YOU behaved kept the door open for your WH should he have emerged from his 'fog'. Mine, were he to ever emerge from his fog, would have taken one look at me and run for the hills!!

You can be SURE you did everything possible under the sun to save your M.

And it's still not over until you decide it is. D papers or not.

Good things await you, NM, whether it involves your WH or not.
xoxo